Saturday, October 2, 2010

we did the best we could.....

day 4 ** something you have to forgive someone for**

have you ever walked away from something knowing it wasn't really resolved? that you didn't really tie up all the loose ends, fix up your end of the bargain? keep your promises... and have you ever done that because you just didn't know any other way to do it at that time, under those set of circumstances...?

i have..and i have had it done to me.



i don't want to say much more about it except that it seems to me the unmanaged romantic relationship brings the most amount of joy and devastation that any relationship can.

and sometimes when its over you just have to forgive the other person and see that maybe they really were doing the best they could with what they had..as we all are...(refer previous post)

"for it is by forgiving that we are forgiven"..st francis

i have loved and been loved and that counts for something...

3 comments:

  1. You write so beautifully. Don't ever lower your expectations. You shouldn't have to settle because you don't think anyone will meet your standards.

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  2. What a lovely thing to say. About both those things.. Thank u. So much

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  3. Know you will always be loved xxx

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